lgbt+ and shippy things :)
plenty of idol groups and sports anime, they know how to make a friendship as gay as possible 😌🤚
fetishising gay relationships is when you let the preference of reading/watching mlm and wlw take form in real life and you treat other human beings in the same uwu way you would a character. you can be supportive, like you would with a heterosexual relationship, just don’t start shipping actual people because that’s crossing the line that shipping fictional characters doesn’t.
i personally swing either way but being straight doesn’t mean you can’t be a ‘fujoshi,’ just don’t support stories that portray gay people as rapists because it’s bad representation. physiological manga, like killing stalking, is different, it’s not normalising the relationship between the characters, however, some bl/gl manga will try to make a forceful relationships appear all cutesy, when it wouldn’t be at all.
i believe that as long as you aren’t doing the two points above then you’re not doing any wrong.
enjoy your escapism ;)