I hate this manga so much for many many reasons. But allow me to tell you why with the comment I left on the last chapter I read.
"god the male lead is controlling, disrespectful, arrogant, and completely flippant about her. He also forces himself on her OVER and OVER again. through hugs or touches or kisses. He's creepy and gross. I just cant stand this."
In the story when other men do it, its treated as obviously out of line or uncomfortable
but when our male LEAD does it? Oh thats soooooo romantic. If someone EVER tries to take away your agency in the way this ml does, run. run in the OPPOSITE DIRECTION