Nitroglycerin
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Yeah, I was often been called a tease when I was younger for not putting out. Whatever. If I don’t wanna sleep with you I don’t wanna sleep with you.
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Nitroglycerin
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I think the purity thing is partly a remnant from religious beliefs of many varieties, but I’m no expert. I always intend to read more about this stuff but never get around to itWell there are definitely, scientifically, some differences between the genders but none of them have to do with how much sex they should have
I don't even know what morality that's based on. The "Purity" thing couldn't matter less in the grand scheme of things. Unless there's just some widespread purity... fetish?
Starletka
Silver Supporter
Pretty much you're a prude/frigid if you don't put out or you're a whore if you do put out. It's sad that it's still a thing even in this day and age. You'd think people would be more open now that female sexuality is not a taboo subject anymore.
Nitroglycerin
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I still personally struggle to talk about sex with irl friends cause it’s sex and that’s naughty.
Gens
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That is incredibly ironic, considering how much sex/nudity/being revealing is sensationalized on TV and media these days.
Nitroglycerin
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It really is. Don’t get me wrong I’m the one people come to to tell me their sexual exploits and issues (apparently I’m a good non judgmental listener) but sharing my own? Nooooo.
Starletka
Silver Supporter
Yeah, but that's everybody's own business. If you're not comfortable talking about sex in public than that's perfectly fine, and it doesn't make you a "prude" or whatever.
Rascal
Gold Supporter
That is also bad though, for a lot of reasons. I've never wanted sex in my media, for me sex is only something to REALLY be seriously talked about or experienced behind closed doors or at least with someone you trust. I don't want to see it on my screens.
Starletka
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Gens
Database Moderator
I don't mind if it's a prominently explored theme of said media and important, actually exploring sexuality. It's just a lot of the time, it's tacked on for no good reason other than to titilate.
ZetsubouKaiji
Well-Known Member
Yet there are weird prudish restrictions there as well. Blowjobs get shown all the time, but Blue is the Warmest Color got slapped with an NC-17 rating for showing oral being performed on a woman. Boobs and butts are fair game, but dicks and vaginas are almost a complete no go.
Sex is often used in an exploitative manner in media. There's only a few stories that really need graphic sex scenes.
Rascal
Gold Supporter
Fair enough, I can see how some might like that. I still try to avoid the theme no matter what though. The theme of sexuality is just not something that entertains or interests me when watching something about it, I'd rather it be talked about between individuals if at all.
Oddly enough I make sex jokes online- but I don't do it in real life and I hate comedy based around it. I think this is just because of you guys.
Guess this is kind of a Confession post too, but... I don't care for sex humor or sexual themes in media 90% of the time to be frank. I should probably stop doing it so that I stop being a hypocrite
G
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Was just ranting about this in class the other day. There is no insult for men that is comparable to the "slut," or "whore," (etc) that women get. Even "man whore" (which is problematic, as it suggests "whore," is inherently feminine...) carries a sense of accomplishment, light-heartedness, humor or prestige. It's super lame. I also don't mind people not being promiscuous, but vilifying, bullying, or passing sweeping judgement on a person for it is ludicrous, and is probably why I'm always getting into stupid fights all the time T^T
Rascal
Gold Supporter
Hm. I guess that would explain why it didn't make sense to me. The only insecurity I really have is my face, I'm otherwise really confident in everything but I guess it would make sense to preach about purity if you were, in that regard. Today I Learned!
HasseRovdjur
Breast Claw
You wouldn't lick a toad that someone else has licked! You wouldn't let someone who stepped on someone else before step on you!
I don't remember AoT doujins getting animated.
Gens
Database Moderator
We are truly nothing but a place full of contradictions. Nobody wants to see lower body parts, everyone wants to see breasts, that always makes me laugh out loud in my head.
ZetsubouKaiji
Well-Known Member
All that being said, I do understand why vampires want virgin blood.
HasseRovdjur
Breast Claw
Eh, speak for yourself.All that being said, I do understand why vampires want virgin blood.
Starletka
Silver Supporter
*coughTheHandmaidencough*
Well, it's way easier to talk about things online. I'm not exactly comfortable with explicit sex discussion irl either.
Well there's always "fuckboy", used for fuckboys who label girls as "nymphos" and "prudes"